Kaley Cuoco forced to defend sleeping arrangement with fiancé Tom Pelphrey


The Big Bang Theory alum Kaley Cuoco has defended her unconventional sleeping arrangement with her fiancé, Tom Pelphrey


photo of kaley cuoco and tom pelphrey in matching black suits© Getty Images
Jenni McKnight
Jenni McKnightUS Lifestyle Editor
February 12, 2026
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Kaley Cuoco is making no apologies for her unconventional sleeping arrangement with her fiancé, Tom Pelphrey, but she is defending it.

The Big Bang Theory alum, who confirmed her engagement to the Ozark actor in August 2024, revealed that she and Tom have decided to stop sharing a bed, a decision she called a "game changer."

Kaley explained on Dax Shepard's Armchair Expert podcast on Monday that she and the actor had a differing opinion about sharing their bedroom with their rescue dogs.

The actress admitted that Tom eventually spoke out against it because he couldn't sleep with the dogs barking during the night.

WATCH: Kaley Cuoco shares glimpse inside her bedroom that she doesn't share with her fiancé

"He was like, 'I can't do this anymore.' And I'm like, 'I understand,'" she explained. "So, he started sleeping in the guest room. Which, by the way, game changer."

Kaley also admitted that their new sleeping arrangement works well for them because of their "different sleeping schedules," explaining that Tom is a "night owl," who "goes to bed very late," while she is not.

Kaley Cuoco and Tom Pelphrey attend "Lawmen: Bass Reeves" Los Angeles Party at Sunset Tower Hotel on December 01, 2023 in Los Angeles, California© Getty Images
Kaley revealed that she and Tom sleep in separate bedrooms

"He writes at night. He reads, it's his quiet time," she said. "So, he's up late and wakes up late on a non-working day. We established this from day one. I go to bed early, and I wake up early. We're totally on different sleeping schedules."

She recalled: "He's like, 'I can't sleep.' He wakes up. He can't go back to sleep. So, he's like, 'How do you feel if I sleep in that other room?' We do couples therapy, and we love it."

Despite being all for their new sleeping arrangements now, Kaley confessed that at first, she was worried about what people would think.

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Kaley said her and Tom's sleeping arrangement is a 'game changer'

"At first, I'm like, 'What will people think?' And he's like, 'I never see you at night.' I don't see him. It's not our sexy time. We don't cuddle. We don't see each other at night," she explained.

"He goes, 'Why do you care?' And I sat there, and I went, 'God, I don't care.' And he goes, 'Let's try it.'"

Photo shared by Kaley Cuoco of her and Tom Pelphrey in honor of his 42nd birthday on July 27, 2024© Instagram
Kaley said separate beds is the 'best decision' they ever made

Kaley and Tom are now "such happier people" because of their separate beds, with her adding that "nothing happens but sleep" in the guest room.

She added: "I'm up with [their daughter] Matilda at 7 a.m. She comes into bed with me. I can turn things on. Best decision we ever made."

Photo shared by Kaley Cuoco on Instagram Stories August 14, 2024 confirming her engagement to Tom Pelphrey© Instagram
Kaley and Tom confirmed their engagement in August 2024

Kaley announced her engagement to Tom on August 14, 2024, over a year after giving birth to their daughter, Matilda, on March 30, 2023. They started dating in 2022.

Announcing the birth of their daughter, Kaley said: "Introducing Matilda Carmine Richie Pelphrey, the new light of our lives! We are overjoyed and grateful for this little miracle.

Kaley with her daughter and partner Tom© Instagram
Kaley and Tom welcomed Matilda in March 2023

"Thank you to the doctors, nurses, family and friends who have helped us immensely over the last few days. We are blessed beyond belief @tommypelphrey didn't think I could fall even more in love with you, but I did," she added.

Tom said: "My heart is full of love and gratitude for this miracle. Eternally grateful for the strength and bravery of my soulmate and best friend @kaleycuoco. You are incredible."

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