Meet the partners of The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives' cast


The reality show lead, Taylor Frankie Paul, was set to be the next Bachelorette, but days before it was set to air, ABC decided to pull the premiere


Miranda McWhorter, Jessi Ngatikaura, Layla Taylor, Mikayla Matthews, Mayci Neeley, Taylor Frankie Paul, Jennifer Affleck, Whitney Leavitt and Demi Engemann attend the Los Angeles Premiere of Hulu's "The Secret Lives Of Mormon Wives" Season 2© Getty Images
Tess Hill
Tess HillNews and Features Writer
Updated: March 20, 2026
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Just one week after the fourth season of The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives premiered, heaps of drama have occurred off-screen. Taylor Frankie Paul was set to be the next Bachelorette, but days before it was set to air, ABC decided to pull the premiere of its 22nd season.

Taylor has been embroiled in controversy for the past few days after allegations of domestic abuse were levied against her by her ex Dakota Mortensen.

"In light of the newly released video just surfaced today, we have made the decision to not move forward with the new season of The Bachelorette at this time, and our focus is on supporting the family," a statement from a Disney Entertainment Television rep to Best Quality Designer Handbag reads.

In the wake of the allegations, the upcoming season of The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives also paused production.

So, while the future of The Bachelorette and The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives are up in the air, let's dive into the partners of the cast. Here is everything we know about the partners and ex-partners of The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives' stars.

Taylor Frankie Paul and Dakota Mortensen© Instagram

Taylor Frankie Paul and Dakota Mortensen

Taylor wrapped up season four of SLOMW by flying off to Los Angeles to start filming season 22 of The Bachelorette. Of course, all of that has changed in the past few days. The other person at the center of the recent drama is Dakota Mortensen.

Taylor divorced her first husband, Tate Paul, in 2022. Shortly after, she started dating Dakota – who is now a mainstay of the reality show and a member of "DadTok." Taylor and Dakota are parents to their son, Ever, who was born in March 2024.

The entirety of SLOMW documents the ups and downs of Taylor and Dakota's relationship, ending with the former leaving to film The Bachelorette while FaceTiming her ex.

Jennifer Affleck and Zac Affleck attend the WICKED: FOR GOOD pre-premiere reception© Getty Images

Jen and Zack Affleck

The former competitor on DWTS, Jen Affleck, is married to Zac Affleck. And no, neither are actually related to the famous Affleck family. They married in June 2019 and have documented the ups and downs of their relationship on the reality show. Jen and Zac are parents to three children – Nora, Lucas, and Penelope

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Whitney and Conner Leavitt

One of the SLOMW's villains and another competitor on DWTS, Whitney Leavitt, married Conner Leavitt in August 2016. Before season one, the couple fled Utah and publicly dealt with Conner's porn addiction. But, the two reconciled. Whitney and Conner are parents to Sedona, Liam, and Billy Gene.

The couple are now fan favorites, with Whitney starring as Roxie Hart in Chicago on Broadway. The reality star just celebrated Chicago's highest weekly ticket sales in the show's 29-year history, by getting a simple tattoo.

Jordan Ngatikaura and Jessi Ngatikaura attend the Freakier Friday Los Angeles Premiere© Getty Images

Jessi and Jordan Ngatikaura

During season four of SLOMW, Jessi Draper decided to go by her maiden name and repeatedly brought up her relationship struggles with husband, Jordan Ngatikaura. Well, a week after the season premiere, it seems their relationship is over.

Per TMZ, Jordan filed for divorce after 5 years of marriage on Thursday, March 19, 2026. The couple married in 2020 after ending their previous relationships. The two separated in season three, after Jessi admitted to an emotional affair with Vanderpump Villa's Marciano Brunette and seemingly never recovered.

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Mikayla Matthews and Jace Terry

Another relationship that ended during the filming of season four was between Mikayla Matthews and Jace Terry. The couple got together in 2017, quickly welcomed four children. But during season four of SLOMW, Mikayla shared that she and Jace were separating.

"Last season, we dove into the beginning stages of [our intimacy issues], and that was me revisiting all this trauma for the first time as well," Mikayla explained, opening up about her experience being sexually abused. "It's still new to me, and it's new to him, and we're just navigating it the best way that we can."

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Mayci and Jacob Neeley

In 2018, Mayci and Jacob Neeley got married years after first meeting while attending Brigham Young University. At the time of their meeting, Mayci was pregnant. Her ex-boyfriend and the father of her first child, Arik, tragically died in a car accident in 2015. Jacob and Mayci are parents to two children of their own, which they conceived through IVF.

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Demi and Bret Engemann

Another regular SLOMW villain, Demi Engemann, is married to a man 17-years her senior. The reality star started dating Bret Engemann in 2020 and married a year later. They now have a blended family made up of Bret's sons from his previous marriage and Demi's with her ex, Blake Corbin. 

Demi spoke with People in May 2025 about the drama she caused on the reality show, saying: "I have a good relationship with my husband. We communicate well. I know the truth. I have my people that are in my corner that believe me and rock with me, and that's more than most people can say," she says.

Layla Taylor at "The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives" season 2 Los Angeles premiere© Getty Images

Layla Taylor

Layla Taylor is one of the unmarried members of MomTok. Before the reality show premiered, she was married to Clayton Wessel. The two divorced in 2023 after welcoming two sons – Oliver and Maxwell. During season four, Layla shared her relationship with Mason McWhorter, the brother of her SLOMW's co-star Miranda McWhorter's ex-husband, Chase. But the two broke up in February 2026.

Miranda McWhorter at "The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives" season 2 Los Angeles premiere© Getty Images

Miranda McWhorter

Miranda McWhorter joined SLOMW during the second season. She was married to Chase McWhorter from 2017 to 2024. The couple share two kids – Brooks and Cohen. Miranda opened up to People about her dating life, saying: "I'm single, but I don't know that I would say I'm dating. I'm just kind of trying to have life experiences, and just really soak up the time with it just being me and my babies. Obviously, I'm open to the journey, whatever happens, but I'm not currently really looking to date."

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