Charles Spencer marries his girlfriend Cat Jarman in 'private ceremony' in Arizona – see stunning photos


The brother of the late Princess Diana tied the knot with Professor Cat Jarman at a private ceremony held in Arizona on Friday


Earl Spencer and Cat Jarman tied the knot © Cat Spencer/Caitlyn Jennings
Eleanor Dye
Eleanor DyeOnline Royal Correspondent
Updated: 1 day ago
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Charles Spencer has married his girlfriend, Cat Jarman, in a private ceremony. Princess Diana's brother, 61, tied the knot with Cat, a Norwegian archaeologist, in Arizona on Friday, HELLO! can reveal. It is the Earl's fourth marriage. 

In stunning photographs set among a desert landscape, Cat, 43, wore a white linen dress and heeled shoes, carrying a bouquet of white roses. The couple looked incredibly loved-up, holding hands as they walked together in newlywed bliss. 

Taking to Instagram, the Earl said it was the "happiest day ever", revealing the ceremony took place on Friday, 15 May. He also shared a sweet anecdote about his love story with his new wife.

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In his caption, he wrote: "A very close friend said to me, months ago: 'The thing about Cat is, she’d want to be with you if you lived in a hut.' Little did I know she’d also be happy to marry me in a desert 🌵."

Cat broke with tradition, wearing a pale blue, Grecian-style gown from ba&sh, which retails for just £355.

The couple has been dating for two years after he was asked to review her 2021 book, River Kings. Since then, they have launched a podcast and worked together on archaeological digs. 

Earl Spencer and Professor Cat Jarman married privately in Arizona on Friday© Caitlyn Jennings
Charles and Cat began dating two years ago

In a joint statement on Tuesday, they said: "We both feel so incredibly lucky to have progressed from being colleagues, to friendship, to deep love and connection. Each stage of our relationship has been underpinned by laughter and we share a passion for life." 

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Charles's Spencer's relationships

It comes after Cat's legal case against the Earl's ex-wife, Countess Spencer, was settled in December last year. 

Earl Spencer and Professor Cat Jarman married privately in Arizona on Friday© Cat Spencer
The couple posed for a selfie during their private nuptials

It was reported two months ago that Charles, who lives on the Althorp Estate in Northamptonshire, and Karen had finalised their divorce. The former couple married in 2011. 

The count shares one child, Lady Charlotte, with his third wife. The countess posted on Instagram last year confirming that she had moved out of Althorp a year after the separation. 

Charles was previously married to Victoria Aitken for eight years, from 1989 to 1997. They spent much of their time in South Africa and share four children together - Lady Kitty, 35, twins Lady Eliza and Lady Amelia, 33, and Viscount Louis, 32.

Cat looked stunning in white © Caitlyn Jennings
Cat looked stunning in white

His second wife was Caroline Freud, the ex-wife of businessman Matthew Freud, to whom he was married for six years. They had two children together, the Hon. Edmund, 22, and Lady Lara, 19.

Cat was previously married to ex-husband Tom Jarman and is the mother of two sons. 

New romance

Earl Spencer and Professor Cat Jarman married privately in Arizona on Friday© Caitlyn Jennings
Earl Spencer and Professor Cat Jarman tied the knot in Arizona on Friday

The father-of-seven split from his wife Karen Spencer in June 2024 and went public with his new girlfriend, Cat Jarman. 

Since 2023, Charles and Cat have co-hosted The Rabbit Hole Detective – a historical podcast – alongside Richard Coles. Back in February, they celebrated hosting their 100th episode. 

Diana and Earl Spencer also have two older sisters, Jane and Sarah. The late Princess of Wales married the then-Prince Charles in July 1981.  

Charles Spencer throughout the years...

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Charles Spencer smiling as a young boy next to a young Princess Diana© Getty Images

Tiny tots

Charles Spencer posing with his sister, Princess Diana, at their childhood home in Northamptonshire in 1968.

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Young Charles Spencer driving car © Getty Images

Beach buggy

A young Charles Spencer driving his beach buggy at Althorp House in Northamptonshire in 1980.

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Earl Spencer walking in a bow tie suit © WireImage

Dining in Mayfair

Charles Spencer at Mirabelle in Mayfair in the late 1980s.

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Charles Spencer with his arms around Victoria Lockwood, she is wearing an engagement ring © Tim Graham Photo Library via Get

First engagement

Charles Spencer posing with his fiancée, model Victoria Lockwood, after announcing their engagement in July 1989.

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Princess Diana's Family members, Prince Philip, Duke of Edinburgh, Prince William, the 9th Earl Charles Spencer, Prince Harry, and Prince Charles, walk behind the funeral cortege, at the funeral of Diana, Princess of Wales© Getty Images

Princess Diana's funeral

Charles Spencer walking with Prince Philip, Prince William, Prince Harry and Prince Charles behind the funeral cortege at Princess Diana's funeral in September 1997.

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Charles Spencer wearing a suit walking hand in hand with Caroline Freud who is wearing a red dress© Getty Images

Night at the movies

Charles Spencer attending the UK premiere of Notting Hill with his girlfriend, Caroline Freud, in April 1999.

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Charles Spencer walking in the middle of his heavily pregnant wife Karen Spencer © Getty Images

Wedding bells

Charles walking with his heavily pregnant wife, Karen Spencer, and his son, Edmund Spencer, at the wedding of Emily McCorquodale and James Hutt in June 2012.

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Charles Spencer signing a copy of his book© WireImage

Author moment

Charles signing a copy of his book Killers of the King in March 2015.


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Charles Spencer posing in a suit© Dave Benett/Getty Images for Cha

Premiere invite

Charles Spencer attending the UK premiere of Dancing At The Vatican in February 2020.

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Charles Spencer with his arms around Cat Jarman, both of them holding a drink© Max Cisotti/Dave Benett/Getty Im

Date night

Posing with his wife, Cat Jarman, Charles Spencer attends the opening night of The Gilded Mischief in November 2025.

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