Barack Obama admits Donald Trump has sparked 'tension' in marriage with Michelle


The former US President spoke openly about the strain in a new interview


Former President of the United States Barack Obama and New Jersey Democratic gubernatorial candidate for Governor Mikie Sherrill attend 'Get out the vote' rally at the Essex County College gymnasium in Newark, New Jersey, United States on November 1, 2025. (Photo by Kyle Mazza/Anadolu via Getty Images)© Anadolu via Getty Images
Faye James
Faye JamesSenior Editor
May 5, 2026
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Barack Obama gave a rare insight into his marriage, revealing that his continued involvement in politics, driven in part by Donald Trump’s return to the White House, has created "genuine tension" at home.

The former US President, 64, spoke openly about the strain in an interview with The New Yorker, explaining that his wife, Michelle, had hoped for a quieter chapter of life after their years in the White House. Instead, he finds himself repeatedly drawn back into the political arena.

"It does create genuine tension in our household, and it frustrates her," Barack admitted, offering an unusually personal glimpse into their relationship. "I’m more forgiving of it, I understand why people feel that way."

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Michelle Obama and Barack Obama

After leaving office in 2017 at just 55, Barack was younger than most former presidents and widely expected to take a step back from public life. But nearly a decade on, he remains one of the most visible and active ex-presidents in modern history.

According to Barack, Donald’s return to power has made it difficult for him to fully disengage. While Michelle is said to be eager for a more private life together, Barack feels a responsibility to stay involved in shaping the political landscape.

Sasha, Malia, Michelle and Barack Obama pose for a family photo, shared on Instagram© Instagram
Sasha, Malia, Michelle and Barack Obama pose for a family photo

He pushed back against criticism that he is not doing enough, noting the unprecedented nature of his continued influence. "No other ex-president was the main surrogate for the party for four election cycles after they left office," he said, highlighting the scale of his ongoing commitment.

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Donald Trump speaks with former President Barack Obama

Still, he struck a philosophical tone when addressing public expectations: "The fact that people want me to be doing more is a good sign."

Far from retreating, Obama has continued to make high-profile appearances and lend his voice to key political causes.

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Barack and Michelle Obama back in the days when he was president

Just last month, he supported a Virginia amendment aimed at reshaping congressional districts, and he has also appeared alongside New York City Mayor Zohran Mamdani, a rising figure within Democratic politics.

During a recent visit to a childcare centre in New York, Obama showed his lighter side, reading to preschoolers and leading a sing-along of The Wheels on the Bus. In a moment that delighted the children, he joked: "You’re going to have to all help me get up… because I’m old," prompting laughter from the room.

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