Sarah Jessica Parker says she missed the ‘facelift window.’ Is there really a best age?


After Sarah Jessica Parker spoke out about face lifts, experts weigh in on whether there’s an age sweet spot for facial surgery and non-surgical alternatives


Sarah Jessica Parker talking about face lifts© Getty Images

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By Caroline Brien
6 hours ago
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Three years ago, aged 58 and in the unlikely setting of an interview with US ‘shock jock’ Howard Stern, Sarah Jessica Parker said she felt that the age window for having a facelift may have passed her by. “I think I missed out on the facelift,” she told him. “Like an old-fashioned good one you have when you are 44.” 

When asked if she’d ever considered it, Sarah replied, “I do understand why people make the choice, because there is so much emphasis put on primarily women about looks. I ask people all the time, like, ‘Is it too late?’” Now 61, Sarah may be intrigued by the expert answer.

"I understand what Sarah Jessica Parker means when she talks about a 'facelift window' but I don't think there's a specific age that applies to everyone,” says Dr Paul Banwell, renowned British cosmetic surgeon, aesthetics specialist and founder of Pantheons Clinic. 

Sarah Jessica Parker was 44 in this photo, the year she believes would have been the 'facelift window'© WireImage
Sarah Jessica Parker was 44 in this photo, the year she believes would have been the 'facelift window'

“Patients often ask whether there's a magic age for a facelift, but the reality is that ageing doesn't happen according to a calendar. Some people develop jowls, neck laxity and loss of jawline definition in their late 40s, while others may not experience significant changes until their 60s and I've seen patients in their 70s achieve fantastic facelift results. Genetics, lifestyle, sun exposure, smoking history, weight fluctuations and skin quality all play a role.”

Dr Priya Verma, award-winning aesthetic doctor and Founder of Art Clinic in Knightsbridge, agrees, adding, “I don't believe there is a universal sweet spot age for a facelift. The right timing depends more on an individual's anatomy, skin quality, degree of laxity, facial volume loss and aesthetic goals than their age alone. Patients may become suitable candidates in their late 40s or early 50s, whilst others maintain good tissue support and do not consider surgery until their 60s or beyond.” 

Full face and neck lift procedures - which start at around £15,000 - are on the rise, with the British Association of Aesthetic Plastic Surgeons reporting an 11% jump last year.

"Patients are more informed and understand that a modern facelift isn't about looking dramatically different or trying to turn back the clock 20 years,” explains Dr Bamwell.

“Most simply want to look fresher, less tired and more like themselves. We're also seeing the effects of weight loss medications where some experience volume loss and skin laxity, plus video calls with people spending more time looking at themselves on screens.” And then there’s the social media effect, such as last year’s inescapable conversation around Kris Jenner’s facelift, which shifted the needle towards normalising an operation that has for a long time been stigmatised.

split photo of kris jenner before and after facelift© Getty Images
kris jenner before and after her much publicised facelift

While, as you’d expect, most facelift patients do skew 50s and 60s, surgeons increasingly see people outside that age window, while aesthetic doctors also report them asking for advice. “Younger patients are often more prevention-focused, researching ageing earlier and wanting to understand how to preserve facial structure and skin quality before significant changes occur,” says Dr Verma. 

“They are also more familiar with aesthetic treatments, which makes conversations around surgery less intimidating. At the other end of the spectrum, older patients are increasingly considering facelifts because advances in surgical techniques mean more natural-looking outcomes. Many enjoy longer careers, active social lives and better overall health, so are seeking solutions that align their appearance with how vibrant they feel.” 

So, with no universal best age, how does one decide it’s time for a facelift? “Rather than thinking about a specific age, I encourage patients to consider whether their concerns are now structural rather than superficial, as that's often a better indicator of timing,” advises Dr Bamwell. 

“The best facelift should never announce itself. People should notice that you look well rested and refreshed, not that you've had surgery."

And for those who want to defer a facelift for as long as possible or prefer not to have one at all? While there’s no comparable alternative to cosmetic surgery when it comes to reversing heavy, sagging features, there are helpful - albeit much subtler - options. 

At-home gadgets such as microcurrent can go some way to shoring up skin tone and definition. I’ve seen great benefits from the ZIIP Halo, £379.99, which uses electrical currents that mimic the body’s own natural bio-electricity. There are 17 app-controlled programmes that set the time, intensity and electrical current to match your goal, including a six-minute Face Lift.

Jennifer Aniston is a big fan of peptide plumping © Getty Images
Jennifer Aniston is famously a big fan of the Ziip Halo

During her interview, SJP also revealed that rather than a facelift, she’s so far opted for peels and laser with her dermatologist. Aesthetic doctors now often ‘layer’ injectable treatments that work on different depths within skin, targeting one specific concern rather than the facelift’s multi-tasking approach. 

Well-placed, collagen-producing fillers - or regenerative, poly-L-lactic acid biostimulators - such as Sculptra and Julaïne can help give the face back some deep structural support, while hyaluronic acid fillers like HArmonyCA can reflate lost volume, to give a soft lift. If the lower half of the face needs particular attention, Endolift - a favourite of Dr Verma - tightens sagginess and ramps up collagen production using energy delivered into the skin just below the surface. It’s minimally invasive, takes one session and while results develop gradually over several months, can last up to five years.

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